Make choices together
with your partner.

Hot or Not is a real-time couples app for sharing hot takes, moods, and secrets — just the two of you.

Hot or Not — find out where you match

Everything you need,
nothing you don't.

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Hot Takes

Swipe or pick on fun questions and see your partner's answer the moment they respond.

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Mood

Share how you're feeling right now — no words needed. Your partner sees it instantly.

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Secrets

Send a thought that only your partner can unlock. Private, personal, yours.

Real-time

No refresh needed. Everything happens live — the moment your partner reacts, you know.

See it in action

Find out where you match Pick your favourite Always happening, always real Put them in order Just for their eyes Just the two of you

🔐 Your data stays private. No public feed, no ads, no selling your data. Everything is encrypted in transit and stored securely in Europe.